![]() ![]() None of us need to make hard things harder by being mean to ourselves. It isn’t just that we aren’t good at talking about it with the people in our lives because we aren’t good communicators, it’s that it’s a very hard thing to talk about and experience. And it’s something that people who don’t experience dysphoria have a really hard time connecting to. In some ideal world that wouldn’t be the case, but it can be such an intense, jarring feeling to go from being fine in your body to being completely outside it, or disgusted by it. All of us who experience gender dysphoria and are in relationships (sexual or not) find ourselves white-knuckling it through sex, a conversation over dinner, or a therapy session. “I can’t tell how much you may be beating yourself up for the way you’re managing this situation. If you are, I want to start by saying that I hope you can try to do less of that. They are, and it’s my job to take care of that. I just white-knuckle through the dysphoria and let them finish because it’s not like I’m building toward an orgasm that could be ruined by my sudden change in feelings. Since this usually happens, when it does, when things are really moving at a fast pace and my partner is begging me not to stop and to keep talking to them like that, I… don’t stop. It’s fun, but it doesn’t really get me off, physically speaking-there are no nerve endings in a strap-on! I do like to get off, but at the end of the day, my pleasure generally isn’t our priority as a couple. I exclusively top in our relationship, more based on my partner’s preference than my own. I Wear Basically the Same Thing Every Day. Why Does Ron DeSantis Smile Like That? The People Who Know Have Ominous Answers. The Alaska Airlines Door Incident Is So Much More Horrifying Than I Thought ![]()
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